Alex, 34
Brooklyn, NY 4 miles away
Looking for something realA little about me
Big on slow mornings, live music, and plans with room to change.
For adults living with disability or chronic illness
Dating shaped around access, privacy, and real life. Meet people who get it—or connect over all the things that make you, you.
A small founding-member group comes first. No app to download yet.
Brooklyn, NY 4 miles away
Looking for something realA little about me
Big on slow mornings, live music, and plans with room to change.
Dating, with more room to be human
SwaySignal is a dating app concept for adults with disabilities or chronic illness. A place to find someone with similar experiences—or someone who shares your sense of humor, your playlists, your plans for Saturday.
A WHOLE PERSON, ALWAYS
Profiles lead with interests, values, and relationship goals. Shared experience can help start a conversation, but it never has to define the whole one.
YOUR INFORMATION IS YOURS
No public diagnosis or medical records required. You choose if, when, and what health or access details you share with a match.
PLANS THAT MAKE SPACE
Optional communication and access preferences can help people talk about energy, timing, sensory needs, and what makes a first date feel good.
Getting to know someone, your way
The first version can stay simple: help people find a fit, share what they choose, and feel safer starting a conversation.
Tell us what you’d want to seeChoose your interests, relationship goals, and any access or communication preferences you’d like to include.
Explore nearby people and shared interests, with optional filters for experiences you may want to connect over.
Share more only when it feels right. Talk about what makes meeting up comfortable for both of you.
Designed around everyday moments
These are examples of the kind of thoughtful connection SwaySignal hopes to make room for.
Someone with MS says, “My energy can vary, so a low-key plan with room to reschedule works best for me.”
A cane or walker user can choose whether to mention access needs before meeting up.
Two people with different conditions find each other through art, humor, and the same favorite dumpling spot.
Trust is part of the design
Dating asks for trust. Accessibility, privacy, and clear ways to get help need to be part of the first version—not a footnote.
These are design commitments for the concept. They still need to be built, tested, and supported well.
Keep sensitive details optional. Don’t ask for medical records or make diagnosis a condition of belonging.
Plan for readable type, screen readers, clear controls, and different ways people communicate.
Blocking, reporting, and active moderation belong in the product from its first usable version.
Small steps. Better questions.
There’s no need to begin with a costly app. A small group can help test whether the idea feels useful, welcoming, and workable.
LISTEN
Invite a small, varied founding group. Ask what would help—and what would make the experience feel unsafe or off-base.
Little to no costPROTOTYPE
Sketch profiles and discovery with members. Test the flow for accessibility, privacy choices, and moderation needs.
Low-cost learningBUILD IF IT FITS
If people want it, plan for a supported iPhone and Android app, secure accounts, messaging, and ongoing moderation.
Cost and scope to validateA thoughtful goal, not a promise. $1,000–$2,000 in monthly income would need to be tested against real demand, pricing, operating costs, and the work of keeping a dating community safe. It isn’t a starting-income guarantee.
It starts by listening
We’re gathering a small founding group of adults with lived experience to help shape what comes next.
I’m interested An email is all it takes to start the conversation.